人 part 1

Have you tried walking in shopping malls alone? Had a meal at a restaurant alone? Or just being alone, somewhere out there, with a little too much time, and starts to do some self reflection? You probably had the odd experience occasionally, but your friend experience this regularly. That day, I find myself in a so familiar situation. I took a seat in a cafe and start scrolling down my phonebook. That brings me to the next part of my post.

The names that are just there

There are some names in our phonebook that we would never call or sms to. These names are just there, to be there. By now you should roughly get my point, I shall illustrate further with additional examples. I scroll down the list and start messaging friends to meet. The names you sent on your '1st attempt' are usually friends you meet frequently, and you would have a higher chance of getting such friends out. I scroll down the list a 2nd & 3rd time, sending somemore messages, after rejections from earlier friends to come out. By the 4th or 5th time, I have exhausted my 'jio-able' contacts. And if you really have no other choice and sent a message like I did, these intangible contacts would not reply.

Then, we come to the next group of people.

Girls - A thousand and one kinds

I am not trying to sound like an expert here, and I have to be the least appropriate person to comment about girls, given my close to zero interaction with them. But from my years of observation, I believe I can offer some honest views. Everybody is different, so my views are definitely generalised and I, IN NO WAY imply that every girl is like the following. Girls are very strange people. If you pay too much attention to them, they won't even bother looking at you. On the other hand, if you treat them with a fuck-care attitude, they would 'be more bothered' with you. I used to not really be bothered with social network sites like whosgoing, myspace, etc. There will be girls messaging me. But now that I take the initiative to start messaging girls, some don't even reply at all. I am appalled that a large number of girls react this way, especially when they are online and could not have missed my message. Of course, I have only cited 1 example, I have other experiences as well. But due to time constrain, I shall end my post here. Do check back for updates on other types of (human) being.